Things I think about
It's three AM and I am wide awake
thinking about the events of the day. I
can't sleep because I am laying awake thinking about my past, my future, and
things I have absolutely no control over. I think about how I acted or reacted
to situations that had taken place in my day or what I need to order for the
shop. But mostly I think about my furry friends, and hope they left me, happy
and healthy. I think about the little ones I do that are young and so puppy who
couldn't hold still long enough to tie a simple Bow in their hair. Were they
treated kindly enough, did I leave a lasting impression on them so they would
want to come back with their little tail wagging. Did I give them enough
praise, did I remember to reward them for good behavior, or did I hurt them
while pulling out some of those nasty tangles they get.
I think about how many dogs I
have groomed in the 40 years of grooming and begin to remember little puppies
who came in for the first time, or those who were scared, Old timers who just
didn't give a hoot anymore, and all of the rest in-between. Some left lasting
impressions on my heart, and some left them on my arm or leg............. non
the less a bond of trust was built between us.
Those little puppies who come trusting
and happy, full of love and life and all they want is to be played with. I
understand this, so I do my happy dance with them, and then it's training time.
A lot a patience goes into that first groom. The biggest concern is using the
clippers or scissors safely as to not hurt them in anyway. Sometimes I have to
call for help to hold the pup so I don't have any accidents. At times it can be
stressful for baby, and being held onto causes fear and sometimes a little pain
mostly caused from nail trimming or detangling as they try hard to excape it all. Trying to clip around a puppy's
face for the first time, is very frighting, to them and me. But when it's done
and that scary thing stopped it's back to the happy dance. Love and hugs and
building a bond of trust that will last for years to come.
I think about the friendships we
make with our human clients, we become family and develop close bonds with you
as well as your pets. We laugh and joke and sometimes cry with you. We get the
updates of your world and you get ours. I think you would call that a friend.
You are an important part of our lives, not just for business, it's because we
share a common love for your pet and we become part of your extended family. I
just love it when people tell me I am on speed dial! How much closer can you
get than that!
Then I think about the sad parting
of good friends, and this is what makes me sad. I have lost several dogs over
the years that has brought me to tears more than once. Most of them older pets
that had given me years of pleasure to know and groom. Then in the midst of a busy day you get that
ever dreaded phone call that just stops your heart. But your so busy you can't
let yourself think about it, then the night comes, and I lay in bed and begin to
grieve for you and your little beloved dog that has just passed away and I
remember all the things that made both of us smile, and I cry right along with
you.
I hurt as you do, and I want all
my clients to know your loved and appreciated and I too suffer your loss. This
week alone we lost 3 members of our extended family, Skully Belly, Daisy, and Yoshi. All part of
my love and my life and I will truly miss them. I pray God gives them rest and
their old tired bodies will be as new and they can now run the golden meadows
of heaven till we meet again.
May God give peace and love to the families, and know you have our deepest sympathies.
and that's the Buzz on Doggie talk
{{{Huggies to my Doggies}}}
Love Colette
Thank you , collete for your kind words! Yoshi was a true warrior I could have lost him several years ago when he was diagnosed with a brain tumor but he had a will to live that is unparalleled with most humans. Even when he was put to sleep his body was tired , but his heart took longer than normal to slow and his eyes never left my face. Part of my soul went with him as I told him I will see you again and I thanked him for his companionship, and faithfulness through the years. Thank you for making him look so good for so many years , he loved you that I'm sure of! Xxoo sonja.
ReplyDeleteyour so very welcome Sonja
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